How I Will It To Be…

Posted by seowwen on Mar 15, 2013 in General |

Today, the philosopher in me told me that life is how u willed it to be…

Everyone that asked me how my SAHM life is, been getting 1 word answer, STRESSFUL…
- if my philosopher self is right, then I am making it so… Maybe she’s right…

Who cares if my kindy going kiddo is 15 minutes late to school at 4 years old? Who says that will train her to think its ok to be late?
- ME! I insisted that she has to be on time… I rushed and pushed her to be faster…

Who says a kid that eats for an hour and couldn’t feed herself at 3 years 3 months is overly pampered?
- ME! I Convinced myself that’s what others will say about my daughter…

Who said SAHM must have a clean squeaky house and nice nutritious yummylicious food every meal?
- ME! It was all my own expectation, and when reality hits, that I don’t have the time to do so, stress kicks in…

With all that, every slower step I make, a few stressful thoughts surfaces – I’ll not be able to do the laundry, I won’t be able to pick them up on time, the kitchen is not washed, I’m STILL not making dinner myself, etc etc etc…

Who said I had to do all that?
- ME!

Would anyone notice if I don’t? Probably not significantly… So what makes me think that it’s so crucial?
- Again, it was ME!

So if I want a happy life, I need to think happy thoughts…

To not bother about things that are nagging but not solvable, it will handle itself when the time comes…

To let things be, let them take their time, think happy thoughts, do what I can today, and what I can’t tomorrow…

May I have a good SAHM life from this point on…

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2 Comments

llen
Mar 16, 2013 at 1:46 AM

aww..take care yea cous! happy thoughts! *big hug* :)


 
Paik Ling
Mar 19, 2013 at 11:57 AM

Enjoy motherhood. Everything else can wait….including dirty laundry.


 

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